Be direct and get your needs met. Not sure how much longer I can go on, like this As the physician, I found this blog searching for ways to make my spouse feel more important. March 19, And congratulations, "lovableluciferian" for walking away from the precipice of an untenable relationship. Mormonism is an all-in religion. I am getting increasingly more resentful of the times I think he can choose us instead of residency. It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. I recommend that talk.
Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. Best of luck OP. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet.